Change: It Starts With Me

IT'S TIME TO CHANGE OVER

Change does not roll in the wheels of inevitability, but comes through continuous struggle. And so we must straighten our backs and work for our freedom. A man can't ride you unless your back is bent. It is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.

- Martin Luther King Jr./ John F. Kennedy -

    

 " Some people spend their lives doing things and avoiding change. Other, however think that change is always a good thing." In our whole life, we have been presented to a single element called change. Change is inevitable in life. Everything around us is changing with the passage of time. It occurs in many different forms and is carried out in many different ways. However, I have come to the realization that change can be the deepest of all subjects. I always assumed to myself that change occurred when you move to a near town or when you lost someone close to you, but change doesn't have occur over a single dramatic event. It can just happen overnight when your brain determines its time to do something different. The reason that somebody wants to change is usually no their choice, but a feeling that the person feels inside their head and heart. Its almost like a celestial force is making you change and you have no say in the matter but you know you have to because your mental and physical attributes  are commanding to you. Maybe the change isn't the best change. 

   We people are always changing right? if not always but moderately we experienced this things whether this can be good or bad in the eye of others. We all know they are different kinds of changing, changing friends, place, attitude and others. In this kind of changes we always need a person who will guide us and offer his or her opinion, they help us to go through whatever we wanted to go through because they will do what they need to do regardless of the people that they really do love. Like what my experience brought me when I started to change, many of my classmates suggested me about it and some of them gave me a lesson or guide. For some obvious reason, people reject change, especially people who are close to each other, because they feel that this change is going to separate them and make them not as close as they used to be. Remember change is always starts with us, change doesn't exist if we will not make an action to make it different. I believe that the people who are in favor of bringing changes in their life argue that change is very important to break the monotony of life. In my personal opinion change is the law of nature. The group of people who deny change are afraid of the after effects and not ready to except the challenges of life. It cannot be denied that change can cost a lot but it is also undeniable that is also brings prosperity if decisions taken properly.
   Change may give negative and positive result in our lives, but in order to have a good decision or outcome of the changing we need to face them with our strength and confidence. We need to resolve all the challenges and obstacles that may buried in our way through the life of change.